{"id":4563,"date":"2019-12-17T22:11:46","date_gmt":"2019-12-17T21:11:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/?p=4563"},"modified":"2020-11-17T15:36:29","modified_gmt":"2020-11-17T14:36:29","slug":"its-about-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/en\/journal-en\/its-about-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"IT\u2019S ABOUT SEX"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\"><p>[vc_row][vc_column][vc_video link=&#8221;https:\/\/vimeo.com\/380091939&#8243;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<h1>IT\u2019S ABOUT SEX<\/h1>\n<h4>Sebastian Matthias: XOXO<\/h4>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Together with a team of dancers and musicians, Berlin-based choreographer Sebastian Matthias produced a piece about intimacy for an audience aged 14 years and older\u2014as part of the explore dance \u2013 Netzwerk Tanz f\u00fcr junges Publikum project realized by Tanzpakt Stadt-Land-Bund. It is a sensual journey into an intense bodily experience that goes beyond prefabricated images. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Written by Annette Stiekele | 18th December 2019<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>A number of strange objects lie on a table illuminated by fluorescent light. A record player equipped with a spring. A trophy filled with an ice cream cone. A hair dryer spilling dark hair. All objects have one thing in common: they evoke associations that somehow revolve around sex. The path leads into a room where the audience is seated on two sides of the stage. The four performers stand right in front of their audience: \u201cHi, I\u2019m Enis,\u201d says dancer Enis Turan friendly, facing them. Then he becomes more direct, listing things that he finds difficult to talk about when it comes to the subject of sex. \u201cWhat happens when our parents come?\u201d he says, and all four performers assume poses they have observed on social media platforms. Lips formed to a kiss, a breast thrust forward, a body lolling about on the floor. \u201cWhat we want to show you is different,\u201d says dancer Maciek Sado and shatters all expectations.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><a href=\"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/en\/journal-en\/its-about-sex\/attachment\/23_journal_xoxo-6-2\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-4575\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4575 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/23_Journal_XOXO-6-600x392.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"392\" srcset=\"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/23_Journal_XOXO-6-600x392.jpg 600w, https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/23_Journal_XOXO-6-768x502.jpg 768w, https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/23_Journal_XOXO-6-1600x1045.jpg 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/h3>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">RESPECT, CONSENT, LIMITS<\/span><\/h3>\n<h3>REAL BODIES BEYOND INSTAGRAM<\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>XOXO<\/em> (also Hugs and Kisses in digital language) is what the Berlin-based choreographer Sebastian Matthias calls his newest production, which he developed for <em>explore dance &#8211; Netzwerk Tanz f\u00fcr junges Publikum<\/em>, a project that was enabled by <em>Tanzpakt Stadt-Land-Bund<\/em>. It will premiere at Kampnagel in Hamburg and is the product of a joint effort by dancers Rachell Bo Clark, Enis Turan, and Maciek Sado as well as musician Hang Linton. All four will together appear on stage as co-choreographers who have contributed a lot of personal material. The piece caters to an audience of 14 year olds\u2014yet it is certainly at least as interesting for adults to watch. It\u2019s about sex, as the audience already learns in an introductory message before the performance. Which, it is also said, is definitely not an easy topic. Not even for artists. If someone feels uncomfortable during the performance, this person should feel free to leave the performance space anytime.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><a href=\"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/en\/journal-en\/its-about-sex\/attachment\/23_journal_xoxo-_4-2\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-4577\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4577 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/23_Journal_XOXO-_4-600x392.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"392\" srcset=\"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/23_Journal_XOXO-_4-600x392.jpg 600w, https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/23_Journal_XOXO-_4-768x502.jpg 768w, https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/23_Journal_XOXO-_4-1600x1045.jpg 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/h3>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">RESPECT, CONSENT, LIMITS<\/span><\/h3>\n<h3>INTIMACY IS A QUESTION OF COMMUNICATION<\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Adolescents are the ones who primarily face the enormous insecurities accompanying their awaking sexuality. Intimacy is often afflicted with the smell of ignorance, shame, and the threat of embarrassment. How do I approach someone, especially the desired object of love in a way that will allow for successful intimate interaction? For young people, this question often blows up the topic of sex to an oversized, often scary issue. The fact that especially young people who are new to the love game are faced with a flood of images on social media presenting supposedly universal poses taken up by perfect bodies does not make it easier. This powerful flood of images stands in contrast to a clueless silence dominated by taboos. Some of the kids between 9 and 11 years, who choreographer Sebastian Matthias talked to, told him that they did not know what \u2018touching\u2019 meant. It was this conversation that became the initial starting point for the piece. \u201cDance is a medium that can help to negotiate these things,\u201d says Matthias.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><a href=\"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/en\/journal-en\/its-about-sex\/attachment\/23_journal_xoxo_1-2\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-4579\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4579 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/23_Journal_XOXO_1-600x392.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"392\" srcset=\"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/23_Journal_XOXO_1-600x392.jpg 600w, https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/23_Journal_XOXO_1-768x502.jpg 768w, https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/23_Journal_XOXO_1-1600x1045.jpg 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/h3>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">RESPECT, CONSENT, LIMITS<\/span><\/h3>\n<h3>EXPLORING INTIMACY AT EYE LEVEL WITH THE AUDIENCE<\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The dances move tentatively, at times Rachell Bo Clark carefully extends her hand into a gesture that Enis Turan responds to so that both dancers\u2019 bodies tenderly flow into one another. Everything appears soft and in organic movement. No turn seems forced or artificial. The movements are precisely calibrated and yet they are carried out with decisive freedom. At the same time, an intense sensuality can be felt in the performance space because of the piece\u2019s proximity to real life. The magic of all that intimacy can be comes together in the interaction of the dancers\u2019 physicality, in the music, the language, and the objects. On the opposite side of the stage, the musician\u2014who here also performs as a dancer\u2014Hang Linton uses words and movements to explore, together with Maciek Sado, the extent to which touch can be ok, and at what point one of them would ask the other to stop. The atmosphere feels safe, not only because the dances interact in a very respectful way, also in terms of each other\u2019s intimacy, but also because the audience is here offered a safe space that it can retreat to: the audience listens to the electronic music and the text spoken by the performers over headphones that they can take off at any time. At the same time, this also allows the audience also the opportunity to become fully immersed in the scene.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><a href=\"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/en\/journal-en\/its-about-sex\/attachment\/23_journal_xoxo_2-2\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-4581\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4581 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/23_Journal_XOXO_2-600x392.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"392\" srcset=\"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/23_Journal_XOXO_2-600x392.jpg 600w, https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/23_Journal_XOXO_2-768x502.jpg 768w, https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/23_Journal_XOXO_2-1600x1045.jpg 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/>\u00a0<\/a><\/h3>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">RESPECT, CONSENT, LIMITS<\/span><\/h3>\n<h3>DANCE AS AN INTENSE BODY EXPERIENCE<\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>For the dress rehearsal, a class of eight-graders from the Albrecht Thaer high-school in Hamburg comes to watch the piece. The girls in the audience are focused and watch closely what happens on stage. Some of the boys are just as attentive, others laugh and seem embarrassed. Tom Weiss who teaches English and Spanish welcomes any form of response. He comments that today, even very young kids are faced with sexualized images. \u201cI am curious to see how the students react when they experience a completely different approach, a soft encounter between adults.\u201d How the experience of the performance will shape them will only become apparent once they are older: \u201cwe open up ways for more civilized encounters. They see something new. And they learn that we can free sexuality from its taboos by talking about it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>What Sebastian Matthias wants to achieve is a way of talking about sex by using the body, music, and language. His piece offers its young audience the opportunity to embark on an expedition, to explore the secondary feelings that accompany the topic of intimacy. \u201cI am interested in the memories of one\u2019s first sensation of having butterflies in the stomach, of feeling dizzy, of asking questions about limits, consent, and insecurities. It\u2019s not about the sexual act per se. It\u2019s much rather about exploring proximity and touch at eye level with the audience,\u201d says Matthias. <em>XOXO<\/em> does not follow a linear narrative, and yet it is easily accessible because of its additional layer of language. The dance performance is primarily an intense physical experience, both for the dancers and the audience.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><a href=\"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/en\/journal-en\/its-about-sex\/attachment\/23_journal_xoxo_7-2\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-4573\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4573 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/23_Journal_XOXO_7-600x392.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"392\" srcset=\"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/23_Journal_XOXO_7-600x392.jpg 600w, https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/23_Journal_XOXO_7-768x502.jpg 768w, https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/23_Journal_XOXO_7-1600x1045.jpg 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/h3>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">RESPECT, CONSENT, LIMITS<\/span><\/h3>\n<h3>RESPECT, CONSENT, LIMITS<\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>In one scene, Enis Turan asks someone in the audience a few questions. During the dress rehearsal, he addressed the class\u2019s teacher Tom Weiss. \u201cThis piece really gets under your skin, but in such a way that you willingly let someone touch your shoulder,\u201d he later describes the moment. It is here made clear that proximity can be something beautiful, something that is rewarding and can become a strong vital force. At the same time, intimacy can fail even before it even unfolds. In a different scene, Maciek Sado reads the letter of a woman out loud: in the letter, she describes that she was violently forced by a much older man although she had never said \u201cyes.\u201d She also writes that \u201che never asked.\u201d This other extreme, the lack of negotiating an intimate encounter between two people, is addressed in the piece in a way that young people can immediately comprehend. Their teacher Tom Weiss finds that in face of such a multi-layered presentation about intimacy, he can trust that his students will find a good way to express their own. A piece like this is not only good for them, but also necessary when you would like them to not simply retreat to pornography that may at the most satisfy them momentarily. What he detects in this dance performance are \u201ctough topics in a soft shell.\u201d This, he says, provides his students with the chance to experience the real world.<\/p>\n<p>On stage they witness how the bodies of Rachell Bo Clark and Hang Linton slowly begin to touch. They fumble, tender and respectful. Finally, and with a loud bang, a batch of table tennis balls is shot across the stage. It is not least this humorous use of images that makes this production special. The previously mentioned escape route was, by the way, not made use of on this day.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row]<\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sebastian Matthias: XOXO | 18th December 2019 [&#8230;]<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"btn btn-secondary understrap-read-more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/en\/journal-en\/its-about-sex\/\">Read More&#8230;<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> from IT\u2019S ABOUT SEX<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":4064,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4563","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-journal-en","ort-hamburg-en"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4563","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4563"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4563\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6691,"href":"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4563\/revisions\/6691"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4064"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4563"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4563"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/explore-dance.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4563"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}